I have not longed turned 20 and I keep having arguments with my mum who is going through menopause?
so I don't know if that has anything to do with her being so snappy but its getting me a bit down even though it might sound slightly pothectic that very often when we have a spat she's quick to say your 20 you shouldn't be living here , I dont want you here repeatedly. Firstly I havn't got enough money to move out because I have a weekend job and studying at college and get on well with my dad so would prefer not too move out until I'm earning a substantial wage , any suggestions would be really appreciated
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Cuando sueñes con la persona que te guste, esa persona durmio pensando en tí?
SABÍAS QUE:
Cuando se te salga el nombre de la persona a quien amas o de quien sea, esa persona esta pensando en tí?
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Cuando un chico/a te baja la mirada, esa persona esta loca por tí?
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Cuando te toca el cabello esa persona también esta loca por tí?
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Cuando te mira a los ojos te quiere más de lo que piensas?
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Cuando te mira de frente te ama?
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Cuando te mira mucho no puede vivir sin tí?
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Si se despide despacio es porque no te puede dejar ír?
AHORA PIDE UN DESEO!!!
Con el nombre de la persona a quien amas y esa persona te demostrará que también te ama
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It's no coincidence that your mum is going through the menopause. It can make some women as snappy as hell. I had a similar situation with my mum years ago when she was going through the menopause, and she once told me she wished I'd never been born after moving a few things around in the fridge. She only started to be more calm and reasonable after seeing her doctor, and getting medication to help her through the menopause. Try to remember that your mum's hormones are all over the place, and she probably doesn't mean most of the things she says. Seeing her doctor would be a very good idea, but I wouldn't like to be the one to suggest it & I'd tread very carefully with that suggestion. Keeping quiet when you know she's in a mood helps too, although it's not easy sometimes. Good luck!
Menopause is like puberty in reverse. Our hormones are in an uproar, the mood swings are horrific and we tend to lash out at the people we love most, and are closest to us. In addition,if she is working, not only does she have responsibilities at work, she has the added burden of the running the household, doing laundry, cooking meals,taking care of a husband and kids etc. While these tasks may not seem anything out of the ordinary, during this time they can be overwhelming.
Since you and your dad have a good relationship, sit down with him and have a serious discussion. Suggest that mom make an appointment with her OB-GYN. Her situation needs to be re-evaluated and perhaps he/she can put her on some type of meds that won't cure the problem, but will at least tone it down a bit.
As for you, look around and see what you can do to make her life easier. Maybe you could vacuum and dust the house one or two days a week before she gets home, or set the table and have dinner ready, throw a load of wash in, or clean the bathroom if you go in an find it a mess. These little tasks will go a long way. Once school is finished for the summer, set aside a"me and Mom" day. Tell her you are treating her and spend the day getting manis and pedis and having lunch together. You will be very surprised and the difference in her attitude towards you.
When she flips out on you, BE QUIET and go to your room and study until she cools off a bit.
Remember this situation is not going to resolve itself overnight it may take weeks. BE PATIENT!!!
Hope this helps-God bless.
Since you and your dad have a good relationship, sit down with him and have a serious discussion. Suggest that mom make an appointment with her OB-GYN. Her situation needs to be re-evaluated and perhaps he/she can put her on some type of meds that won't cure the problem, but will at least tone it down a bit.
As for you, look around and see what you can do to make her life easier. Maybe you could vacuum and dust the house one or two days a week before she gets home, or set the table and have dinner ready, throw a load of wash in, or clean the bathroom if you go in an find it a mess. These little tasks will go a long way. Once school is finished for the summer, set aside a"me and Mom" day. Tell her you are treating her and spend the day getting manis and pedis and having lunch together. You will be very surprised and the difference in her attitude towards you.
When she flips out on you, BE QUIET and go to your room and study until she cools off a bit.
Remember this situation is not going to resolve itself overnight it may take weeks. BE PATIENT!!!
Hope this helps-God bless.
Often parents say things without thinking.
Sometimes when anger or in the heat of discussion, we may say things that really do not agree with what they really think.
She must be going through difficult times, on account of hormones.Entry into the menopause is very difficult for some women. It is a transition and a finding of aging.
Try to have patience and relieve many of the words that she is aggressive driving to you, in that critical moment of her life.Surely she must repent of many things she says, but has no courage to apologise.
Is important that you promote peace and harmony within your home, since she is not getting over this phase.
Good luck.
Sometimes when anger or in the heat of discussion, we may say things that really do not agree with what they really think.
She must be going through difficult times, on account of hormones.Entry into the menopause is very difficult for some women. It is a transition and a finding of aging.
Try to have patience and relieve many of the words that she is aggressive driving to you, in that critical moment of her life.Surely she must repent of many things she says, but has no courage to apologise.
Is important that you promote peace and harmony within your home, since she is not getting over this phase.
Good luck.
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